Episode 32
32. Intentional Living: Wellness Insights and Black Romance Novels to Savor in 2026
Sometimes your heart knows what to do before your mind catches up. In this deeply personal episode, Octavia is opening up about her wellness journey post-cancer, the messy politics of health in 2026, and why choosing joy through romance novels is actually revolutionary.
Octavia shares what she learned during three months in Portugal, how therapy helped her silence her inner critic, and why she's skeptical of wellness culture while still being intentional about her health. Plus, she's revealing the Black romance novels she's most excited to read in 2026—from Kennedy Ryan's highly anticipated Score to Danielle Allen's final Curve series book.
This episode is about trust, healing, and the wisdom that comes from choosing yourself—in wellness and in the stories we consume.
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Transcript
Hey, beautiful and welcome back to Culture Lit, the podcast where black
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:women's love stories, healing journeys,
and cultural brilliance take center stage.
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:I'm your host, Octavia Marie, and today
we're talking about wellness, the messy,
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:complicated, politicized, and deeply
personal journey of figuring out what
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:feels good in your body and your life.
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:And because this is still very
much a romance podcast, I'm also
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:sharing the Black Romance books
I'm most excited about for:
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:Have you ever made a decision a big
one, and then weeks later found yourself
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:thinking, wait, did I actually do that?
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:That's been my experience lately.
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:My heart knows what to do, my body moves.
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:I take action.
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:Then my mind catches up
days or weeks later, still
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:processing what just happened.
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:I quit my job.
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:I booked my residency visa
appointment at the consulate.
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:I committed to projects that scared me.
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:I said things out loud that I'd
been thinking quietly for years,
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:and each time there's this moment
of, did I really just do that?
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:Maybe it's the fast pace of the
world we live in, or maybe it's
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:because I'm finally learning to
trust my instincts over my anxiety.
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:Either way, I'm realizing
that sometimes you have to act
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:first and understand later.
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:There's something about the turn of
a new year that I've always loved.
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:It's that energy of possibility,
a blank slate, a fresh start.
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:The hope that this time
things might be different.
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:I've always been drawn to wellness,
not the Instagram influencer kind
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:with expensive supplements and juice
cleanses, but the deeper question, what
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:does it actually mean to feel good?
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:To be whole, to move through the
world with energy and intention.
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:But here's the thing, I'm also
deeply skeptical of wellness culture.
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:The diet industrial complex that profits
from our insecurities, the fat phobia that
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:masquerades as health concern, the lack
of nuance, the absence of a holistic lens
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:that considers mental health, systemic
barriers, and the realities of living
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:in a body that's been through something.
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:If you've been listening to
this podcast, you know my body
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:has been through something.
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:I completed treatment for
colorectal cancer in:
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:Three major surgeries,
chemotherapy, radiation.
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:One of those surgeries pushed me
into surgical menopause at 52, and
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:now I'm navigating what it means to
live in this new body, post-cancer,
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:post menopause, with a heightened
awareness that the disease could return.
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:Nutrition has become
central to my recovery.
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:Not in a restrictive way, but in a, what
does my body actually need to thrive way
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:I'm learning what gives me energy versus
what depletes me, what supports my gut
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:health versus what inflames it, what
helps me sleep versus what keeps me wired.
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:It's a journey.
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:And honestly, I'm still catching
up to some of the decisions
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:I've made along the way.
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:Therapy has been one of the most
valuable tools in my healing, not just
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:physically, but emotionally and mentally.
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:For so long, I had an inner critic
that spoke to me with a cruelty
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:I would never direct as someone.
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:I love the voice that said I
wasn't doing enough, wasn't
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:being enough, wasn't enough.
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:Period.
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:My therapist helped me shift from that
harsh self-judgment to something gentler.
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:To curiosity instead of condemnation
to asking what's happening here
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:instead of what's wrong with me.
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:It's been transformative and bittersweet
because in letting go of old beliefs
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:about who I should be, what I should
want, how I should move through the world,
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:I've had to grieve the parts of myself.
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:I used to be.
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:I've learned that life isn't
binary, it's not right or wrong,
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:good or bad, success or failure.
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:It's nuanced, it's murky, it's
both and instead of either or.
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:2023 was my year of endurance,
chemo, radiation, surgeries, grief,
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:exhaustion that went bone deep.
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:But it was also the year I
stopped waiting for permission.
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:I followed creative impulses.
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:I said no to things that didn't serve me.
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:I embraced a new identity.
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:Not the one I planned,
but the one I became.
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:2024 and 2025 have been about integration.
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:Learning to live in this new
normal, figuring out what wellness
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:actually means for me now.
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:And part of that has been
defining it on my own terms.
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:So what is wellness to me right now?
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:It's the balance between
movement and rest.
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:And y'all know I take my rest seriously.
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:It's making choices that align
with my values, not what diet
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:culture tells me I should do.
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:It's breath work, quite literally learning
to breathe more fully, more intentionally.
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:It's being eager to learn while
staying skeptical, because here's the
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:truth, I'm fascinated by wellness,
but I refuse to be naive about it.
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:I'm concerned actually, I'm
frustrated and exhausted that
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:wellness has become so politicized.
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:The Make America healthy again.
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:Movement has taken health
and turned it into a binary.
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:Either you're with us or against us.
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:Either you believe in modern medicine
or you believe in holistic healing.
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:Either you trust the system
or you reject it entirely,
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:but that's not how life works.
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:That's not how bodies works.
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:Modern medicine saved my life.
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:Full stop.
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:Chemotherapy, radiation, surgery.
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:These interventions gave me a future
and daily medication has brought
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:people I love out of despair.
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:It's allowed them to breathe again.
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:Walk again, see light again.
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:It's given them the stability to
then make better choices about
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:nutrition, movement, and self-care.
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:But I'm also deeply concerned about our
food systems, the chemicals we're putting
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:in our bodies, the plastics entering our
bloodstream, the pollution and oxidative
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:stress of simply existing in this world.
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:My brain fights with itself constantly
about how to navigate this space, how
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:to be informed without being fearful.
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:How to be critical without being cynical.
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:How to advocate for change
without shame or judgment.
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:During my three months in Portugal,
I had this sobering realization.
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:We have a problem not just
in America, but globally.
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:We're sick, we're tired, we're in pain.
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:Physically, emotionally, mentally.
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:We don't get enough sunlight.
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:We sit too much.
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:We're disconnected from our
bodies and from each other.
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:We don't even breathe properly most
of the time, and I say this with
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:the deepest compassion, many of
us are sad, even more are scared.
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:Here's where I stand and
I'm not budging on this.
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:Health should not be political.
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:Healthcare should be equitable.
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:Everyone deserves access to healthy
food, clean water, and accurate
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:information about their bodies.
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:Women in midlife should have real
evidence-based information about what's
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:happening to them, not silence and shame.
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:We shouldn't be poisoning ourselves
unwittingly, while corporations profit.
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:These shouldn't be controversial
statements, but here we are.
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:So how do I move forward with intention?
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:I've embraced planning, not as
restriction, but as a tool for joy.
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:Meal prep isn't about deprivation.
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:It's about having nourishing food
ready when I'm too tired to cook.
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:Scheduling movement isn't
about punishing my body.
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:It's about feeling good in it.
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:Spontaneity is beautiful, but preparation
doesn't diminish authenticity.
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:It enhances it for the
first three months of:
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:I've set specific intentions,
understanding my energy
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:patterns throughout the day.
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:Moving my body four times a week in
ways that feel good, reevaluating my
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:habits quarterly instead of annually
prioritizing rest as a non-negotiable.
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:Notice what's not on that list.
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:Weight loss, inches lost.
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:Look, in a certain way.
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:These goals are about how
I feel, not how I look.
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:They're about optimizing my
energy, not shrinking my body.
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:I know data can be
complicated for some people.
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:Tracking is empowering.
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:For others, it's triggering.
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:I'm not particularly obsessive, so
occasionally checking my metrics and
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:seeing what impacts them has been helpful.
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:But I also know that for people
prone to obsessive thinking, tracking
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:devices can create harmful loops.
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:My advice use data intentionally,
but only if it serves you and if
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:it stops serving you put it down.
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:All of this, the wellness journey, the
skepticism, the intentionality, it comes
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:down to one thing I'm choosing joy,
not toxic, positivity, not pretending
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:everything is fine when it's not.
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:But actively, intentionally, fiercely
choosing the things that bring me joy.
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:And you know what brings me joy?
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:Romance novels, they always have.
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:They're my escape, my
education, my inspiration.
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:They show me what's possible.
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:They remind me what I deserve.
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:They make me believe in happy
endings, not just for fictional
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:characters, but for myself.
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:So for 2026, I'm leaning all
the way into that joy, pure,
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:unadulterated, unashamed joy.
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:And that means being very
intentional about what I'm reading.
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:Here are the books I'm most
excited about for:
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:Now I'm starting this list a little
differently because the first book
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:I wanna talk about isn't a romance.
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:I know, I know.
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:Stay with me.
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:But this one is special because it's
written by someone I had the privilege
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:of working with early in my PR career.
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:Amy Dubois Barnett, former editor-in-chief
of Honey Magazine and Teen Vogue.
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:Amy is brilliant and I cannot wait to
get my hands on her debut novel If I
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:rule the world by Amy Dubois Barnett.
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:This is a fast-paced juicy peek behind
the curtain at the cutthroat world
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:of hip hop music and the glamorous
magazine scene of the late:
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:it's written by the ultimate insider.
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:It's 1999.
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:Nikki Rose is the only black editor
at a prestigious fashion magazine,
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:and she's been told one too many times
that black girls don't sell magazines.
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:So she walks away and takes over sugar,
a struggling hip hop, music and lifestyle
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:magazine with untapped potential.
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:Nikki has six months to save
the magazine in her own dreams.
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:She pulls all-nighters parties
with the era's most influential
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:bad boys, and navigates the wealth,
decadence, and debauchery of a world.
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:She's never experienced her
most dangerous challenge.
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:Evading Alonzo Griffin, her very
married, very powerful ex-boyfriend
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:and former boss who's determined
to destroy both her and sugar.
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:Along the way, Nikki leans on loyal
friends and navigates unexpected
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:romances that force her to reckon
with what and who she truly wants.
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:This is a smart immersive romp
through one of the most dynamic
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:eras in pop culture history.
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:It's about ambition, friendship.
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:Love and finding your own voice.
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:I'm here for all of it.
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:Second time around by ette, y'all
know I love Ette and this Second
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:Chance Romance has everything I want.
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:Janae Sanders is wary
of love after divorce.
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:She's focused on her son
James and her besties in the
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:savvy, sexy and single club.
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:Romance.
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:Not today, Satan.
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:That is until Adam Henderson, her high
school heartthrob crashes back into
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:her life at their 20 year reunion.
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:Sparks fly immediately, but just
when Janae considers dating again,
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:she discovers that Adam, now the
new superintendent, has slashed
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:her son's beloved arts program.
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:Instead of getting her groove
back, Janae gets her protest on.
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:Adam is juggling a meddling father
school politics, and unbeknownst
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:to him, Janae's Fury when they both
realize they've been dating the enemy.
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:Janae gives Adam two choices,
restore the program or lose her.
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:Adam proposes a third option one
weekend at his cabin to talk it all out.
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:The funding, the old feelings, everything.
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:Armed with sass, sarcasm, and a
suitcase full of emotional baggage.
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:Janae and Adam discover that
sometimes love shows up in the most
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:infuriating and unexpectedly sexy ways.
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:This is exactly the kind
of grown folks romance.
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:I need the bridge back
to you by Risk m Nielsen.
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:Ex is inheriting a restaurant
together, say less.
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:Olivia owes everything to Celia's Place.
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:It's where she learned to be a great chef.
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:It's also where she first fell
in love with Carmelo, whose
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:mother owned the restaurant.
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:But at 19, Olivia had a wanderlust she
couldn't deny, and Carmelo couldn't
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:leave Celia's place behind any more
than he could force Olivia to stay.
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:10 years later, Olivia is a
successful personal chef who's never
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:stayed in one place for too long.
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:When both she and Carmelo inherit shares
of Celia's place, he plans to buy her
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:out quickly and painlessly, except Olivia
shows up ready to help run the restaurant.
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:She finally has a chance to stay
in one place, build a home, and
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:explore whether that home can
be with the one who got away.
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:Carmelo has other plans.
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:He's trying to drive Olivia
away, so she'll sign over her
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:shares, but sparks begin to fly.
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:Can they avoid the mistakes of the past?
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:This emotional sparkling romance
about second chances in finding home
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:has me completely hooked already.
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:Score by Kennedy Ryan.
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:Listen, Kennedy, Ryan could write
a grocery list and I pre-order
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:it, but this the second book
in her Hollywood Renaissance
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:series featuring Monk and Verity.
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:I've been waiting for this.
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:You never forget your first love.
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:Verity Hill knows this intimately.
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:She didn't just miss right monk, Bellamy
when they parted ways in college.
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:She's been haunted by
his touch ever since.
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:Every kiss, every lover, it's all
been a shadow of what they had.
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:Monk doesn't believe
Time heals all wounds.
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:He wasn't simply betrayed
when he and Verity split.
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:He was devastated with parts of
him left behind in the ruins.
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:More than a decade after their
disastrous breakup, they must work
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:together on an epic Harlem Renaissance.
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:Biopic with Monk creating the
score and verity pinning the.
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:There's Oscar Buzz before
shooting even begins.
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:This once in a lifetime project
could catapult them both to new
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:heights, but can they put the past
behind them for the sake of the film?
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:For the sake of something more.
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:Kennedy Ryan writes,
love that, heals love.
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:That's complicated and messy and real.
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:I cannot wait for this one Big
Girl Blitz by Danielle Allen.
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:This is the third and final book in
Danielle's Curve series, and I'm not
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:ready to say goodbye to this world,
but I'm so ready for Jasmine's story.
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:Jasmine Payne fled her hometown the minute
she graduated high school, leaving behind
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:the fat Phobes who made her life hell.
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:Her Haven was always her Aunt Addison,
and when her health takes a drastic turn,
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:she insists Jazz should spice up her life.
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:Emphasis on spice, but dating is
the last thing on Jazz's mind.
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:Until Lamar Anderson sits next to her
at the local sports bar, he's sexy, fun,
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:and refreshingly drama free With him,
she can pretend everything is all right,
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:but as real life in truths, jazz has to
decide if she can leave the past where
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:it belongs for a love she deserves.
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:Danielle Allen writes Plus size
black women who are unapologetically
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:confident, desired and centered.
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:Her books remind us that we
deserve love, that sees us
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:fully and chooses us completely.
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:Struck Speechless by Tati Richardson,
book two in the Boss Chicks Village
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:series, and I am here for it.
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:Jackie Miles is a petite, powerhouse
sports agent who's built her
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:empire on killer instincts,
designer stilettos, and tough skin.
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:Aside from her French bulldog,
Peewee, and her boss Chick Village,
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:she's perfectly content flying solo.
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:Then Antonio Steele, the towering
former football star turned rival.
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:Agent walks back into her life
and all hell breaks loose.
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:Just when Jackie thinks she can handle
their explosive chemistry and complicated
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:past, she mysteriously loses her voice.
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:A cryptic stranger's message implies
she must quiet her tongue and listen
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:with her heart to lift the spell.
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:With a career defining client trip
to Mexico looming and only the
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:devastatingly handsome Antonio as
backup, Jackie must learn to let go if
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:only she could trust him to catch her.
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:This magical realism meets romance
setup has me absolutely intrigued the
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:missed connection by Tia Williams.
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:Tia Williams is one of my all
time favorite authors, and
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:this premise is everything.
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:Sasha Cruz is a booked and busy casting
agent who's always casting at happy
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:Hour, the post office, everywhere.
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:She's all about finding the perfect
person for the perfect role.
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:What she doesn't do?
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:Relationships.
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:Too much energy, not enough time.
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:But when she's seated next to a
mysterious, brooding, handsome Italian
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:man on a flight to Paris, sparks fly.
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:They miss the chance to exchange
contact information, and now Sasha
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:is convinced she's lost her soulmate.
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:She enlists help to find c diff,
but accidentally emails the entire
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:global company colleagues around the
world begin looking for him too with
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:some finding love along the way.
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:Meanwhile, Sasha hires a smoldering
detective who complicates
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:matters in unforeseen ways.
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:This intensely romantic deliciously
sexy tale about searching for
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:connection in unexpected places
sounds absolutely perfect.
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:Don't tell me how it ends.
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:By Adrianne Thurman.
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:This sparkling debut asks, can we
protect ourselves while falling in love?
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:Kaya Harper may not have a plan for
her life, but she knows what she
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:won't be doing, falling for somebody's
dusty son and promising forever.
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:She'd rather spend the summer after
college having disappointing one night
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:stands and watching crime show reruns.
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:At least she knows how those stories end.
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:But when her very pregnant and
newly single sister calls for help,
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:Kaia stumbles back home and into
her sister's matchmaking business.
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:If becoming the inaugural client
can distract her from what
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:am I even doing with my life?
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:She'll suffer through a few bad dates.
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:When Roe Jackson finds Kaia stalled
on the side of the road, his steady
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:disposition is exactly what she needs.
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:A friend who can handle
her just as she is.
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:But as RO talks kayah through a summer
of failed matches, she finds herself
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:drawn to more than just his friendship.
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:Kayah will have to decide what's more
important, needing to know the end of
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:every story or jumping into the unknown.
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:This one sounds hilarious and heartfelt.
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:And rounding out my most anticipated list,
the Art of Loving You by Natasha Bishop.
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:Hearts on the Fly by Tony Shiloh.
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:A Love Worth Forever by Brianne Donna.
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:Skate Till You Make It by Ru Farro Faith
Maura Break up for two by EM Wilson, the
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:Summer Girlfriend by Christina Forrest.
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:Like a summer love song by Naima
Simone Rich and Rotten by Jaque Jay.
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:So that's my Wellness Journey and my
omance reading intentions for:
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:The thread, connecting them,
joy, intentionality, the refusal
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:to shrink myself or my dreams.
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:I'm choosing books that make me feel good.
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:I'm choosing practices
that support my healing.
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:I'm choosing to trust my instincts
even when my mind is still
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:catching up and I'm choosing to
believe that rest is resistance.
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:Joy is revolutionary, and
love for ourselves and for
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:each other is always worth it.
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:I'd love to hear what you're
most excited to read in:
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:What's on your TBR?
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:What wellness practices are you exploring?
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:Come find me on Threads or Instagram at
becoming Octavia and let's talk about it.
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:Until next time, keep reading, keep
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