Episode 32

32. Intentional Living: Wellness Insights and Black Romance Novels to Savor in 2026

Sometimes your heart knows what to do before your mind catches up. In this deeply personal episode, Octavia is opening up about her wellness journey post-cancer, the messy politics of health in 2026, and why choosing joy through romance novels is actually revolutionary.

Octavia shares what she learned during three months in Portugal, how therapy helped her silence her inner critic, and why she's skeptical of wellness culture while still being intentional about her health. Plus, she's revealing the Black romance novels she's most excited to read in 2026—from Kennedy Ryan's highly anticipated Score to Danielle Allen's final Curve series book.

This episode is about trust, healing, and the wisdom that comes from choosing yourself—in wellness and in the stories we consume.

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Hey, beautiful and welcome back to Culture Lit, the podcast where black

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women's love stories, healing journeys,

and cultural brilliance take center stage.

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I'm your host, Octavia Marie, and today

we're talking about wellness, the messy,

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complicated, politicized, and deeply

personal journey of figuring out what

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feels good in your body and your life.

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And because this is still very

much a romance podcast, I'm also

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sharing the Black Romance books

I'm most excited about for:

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Have you ever made a decision a big

one, and then weeks later found yourself

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thinking, wait, did I actually do that?

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That's been my experience lately.

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My heart knows what to do, my body moves.

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I take action.

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Then my mind catches up

days or weeks later, still

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processing what just happened.

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I quit my job.

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I booked my residency visa

appointment at the consulate.

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I committed to projects that scared me.

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I said things out loud that I'd

been thinking quietly for years,

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and each time there's this moment

of, did I really just do that?

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Maybe it's the fast pace of the

world we live in, or maybe it's

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because I'm finally learning to

trust my instincts over my anxiety.

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Either way, I'm realizing

that sometimes you have to act

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first and understand later.

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There's something about the turn of

a new year that I've always loved.

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It's that energy of possibility,

a blank slate, a fresh start.

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The hope that this time

things might be different.

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I've always been drawn to wellness,

not the Instagram influencer kind

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with expensive supplements and juice

cleanses, but the deeper question, what

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does it actually mean to feel good?

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To be whole, to move through the

world with energy and intention.

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But here's the thing, I'm also

deeply skeptical of wellness culture.

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The diet industrial complex that profits

from our insecurities, the fat phobia that

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masquerades as health concern, the lack

of nuance, the absence of a holistic lens

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that considers mental health, systemic

barriers, and the realities of living

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in a body that's been through something.

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If you've been listening to

this podcast, you know my body

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has been through something.

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I completed treatment for

colorectal cancer in:

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Three major surgeries,

chemotherapy, radiation.

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One of those surgeries pushed me

into surgical menopause at 52, and

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now I'm navigating what it means to

live in this new body, post-cancer,

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post menopause, with a heightened

awareness that the disease could return.

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Nutrition has become

central to my recovery.

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Not in a restrictive way, but in a, what

does my body actually need to thrive way

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I'm learning what gives me energy versus

what depletes me, what supports my gut

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health versus what inflames it, what

helps me sleep versus what keeps me wired.

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It's a journey.

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And honestly, I'm still catching

up to some of the decisions

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I've made along the way.

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Therapy has been one of the most

valuable tools in my healing, not just

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physically, but emotionally and mentally.

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For so long, I had an inner critic

that spoke to me with a cruelty

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I would never direct as someone.

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I love the voice that said I

wasn't doing enough, wasn't

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being enough, wasn't enough.

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Period.

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My therapist helped me shift from that

harsh self-judgment to something gentler.

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To curiosity instead of condemnation

to asking what's happening here

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instead of what's wrong with me.

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It's been transformative and bittersweet

because in letting go of old beliefs

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about who I should be, what I should

want, how I should move through the world,

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I've had to grieve the parts of myself.

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I used to be.

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I've learned that life isn't

binary, it's not right or wrong,

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good or bad, success or failure.

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It's nuanced, it's murky, it's

both and instead of either or.

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2023 was my year of endurance,

chemo, radiation, surgeries, grief,

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exhaustion that went bone deep.

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But it was also the year I

stopped waiting for permission.

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I followed creative impulses.

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I said no to things that didn't serve me.

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I embraced a new identity.

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Not the one I planned,

but the one I became.

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2024 and 2025 have been about integration.

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Learning to live in this new

normal, figuring out what wellness

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actually means for me now.

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And part of that has been

defining it on my own terms.

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So what is wellness to me right now?

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It's the balance between

movement and rest.

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And y'all know I take my rest seriously.

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It's making choices that align

with my values, not what diet

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culture tells me I should do.

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It's breath work, quite literally learning

to breathe more fully, more intentionally.

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It's being eager to learn while

staying skeptical, because here's the

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truth, I'm fascinated by wellness,

but I refuse to be naive about it.

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I'm concerned actually, I'm

frustrated and exhausted that

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wellness has become so politicized.

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The Make America healthy again.

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Movement has taken health

and turned it into a binary.

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Either you're with us or against us.

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Either you believe in modern medicine

or you believe in holistic healing.

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Either you trust the system

or you reject it entirely,

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but that's not how life works.

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That's not how bodies works.

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Modern medicine saved my life.

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Full stop.

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Chemotherapy, radiation, surgery.

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These interventions gave me a future

and daily medication has brought

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people I love out of despair.

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It's allowed them to breathe again.

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Walk again, see light again.

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It's given them the stability to

then make better choices about

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nutrition, movement, and self-care.

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But I'm also deeply concerned about our

food systems, the chemicals we're putting

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in our bodies, the plastics entering our

bloodstream, the pollution and oxidative

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stress of simply existing in this world.

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My brain fights with itself constantly

about how to navigate this space, how

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to be informed without being fearful.

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How to be critical without being cynical.

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How to advocate for change

without shame or judgment.

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During my three months in Portugal,

I had this sobering realization.

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We have a problem not just

in America, but globally.

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We're sick, we're tired, we're in pain.

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Physically, emotionally, mentally.

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We don't get enough sunlight.

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We sit too much.

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We're disconnected from our

bodies and from each other.

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We don't even breathe properly most

of the time, and I say this with

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the deepest compassion, many of

us are sad, even more are scared.

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Here's where I stand and

I'm not budging on this.

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Health should not be political.

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Healthcare should be equitable.

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Everyone deserves access to healthy

food, clean water, and accurate

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information about their bodies.

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Women in midlife should have real

evidence-based information about what's

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happening to them, not silence and shame.

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We shouldn't be poisoning ourselves

unwittingly, while corporations profit.

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These shouldn't be controversial

statements, but here we are.

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So how do I move forward with intention?

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I've embraced planning, not as

restriction, but as a tool for joy.

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Meal prep isn't about deprivation.

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It's about having nourishing food

ready when I'm too tired to cook.

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Scheduling movement isn't

about punishing my body.

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It's about feeling good in it.

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Spontaneity is beautiful, but preparation

doesn't diminish authenticity.

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It enhances it for the

first three months of:

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I've set specific intentions,

understanding my energy

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patterns throughout the day.

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Moving my body four times a week in

ways that feel good, reevaluating my

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habits quarterly instead of annually

prioritizing rest as a non-negotiable.

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Notice what's not on that list.

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Weight loss, inches lost.

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Look, in a certain way.

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These goals are about how

I feel, not how I look.

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They're about optimizing my

energy, not shrinking my body.

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I know data can be

complicated for some people.

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Tracking is empowering.

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For others, it's triggering.

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I'm not particularly obsessive, so

occasionally checking my metrics and

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seeing what impacts them has been helpful.

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But I also know that for people

prone to obsessive thinking, tracking

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devices can create harmful loops.

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My advice use data intentionally,

but only if it serves you and if

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it stops serving you put it down.

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All of this, the wellness journey, the

skepticism, the intentionality, it comes

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down to one thing I'm choosing joy,

not toxic, positivity, not pretending

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everything is fine when it's not.

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But actively, intentionally, fiercely

choosing the things that bring me joy.

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And you know what brings me joy?

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Romance novels, they always have.

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They're my escape, my

education, my inspiration.

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They show me what's possible.

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They remind me what I deserve.

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They make me believe in happy

endings, not just for fictional

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characters, but for myself.

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So for 2026, I'm leaning all

the way into that joy, pure,

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unadulterated, unashamed joy.

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And that means being very

intentional about what I'm reading.

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Here are the books I'm most

excited about for:

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Now I'm starting this list a little

differently because the first book

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I wanna talk about isn't a romance.

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I know, I know.

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Stay with me.

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But this one is special because it's

written by someone I had the privilege

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of working with early in my PR career.

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Amy Dubois Barnett, former editor-in-chief

of Honey Magazine and Teen Vogue.

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Amy is brilliant and I cannot wait to

get my hands on her debut novel If I

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rule the world by Amy Dubois Barnett.

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This is a fast-paced juicy peek behind

the curtain at the cutthroat world

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of hip hop music and the glamorous

magazine scene of the late:

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it's written by the ultimate insider.

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It's 1999.

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Nikki Rose is the only black editor

at a prestigious fashion magazine,

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and she's been told one too many times

that black girls don't sell magazines.

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So she walks away and takes over sugar,

a struggling hip hop, music and lifestyle

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magazine with untapped potential.

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Nikki has six months to save

the magazine in her own dreams.

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She pulls all-nighters parties

with the era's most influential

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bad boys, and navigates the wealth,

decadence, and debauchery of a world.

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She's never experienced her

most dangerous challenge.

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Evading Alonzo Griffin, her very

married, very powerful ex-boyfriend

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and former boss who's determined

to destroy both her and sugar.

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Along the way, Nikki leans on loyal

friends and navigates unexpected

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romances that force her to reckon

with what and who she truly wants.

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This is a smart immersive romp

through one of the most dynamic

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eras in pop culture history.

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It's about ambition, friendship.

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Love and finding your own voice.

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I'm here for all of it.

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Second time around by ette, y'all

know I love Ette and this Second

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Chance Romance has everything I want.

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Janae Sanders is wary

of love after divorce.

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She's focused on her son

James and her besties in the

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savvy, sexy and single club.

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Romance.

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Not today, Satan.

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That is until Adam Henderson, her high

school heartthrob crashes back into

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her life at their 20 year reunion.

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Sparks fly immediately, but just

when Janae considers dating again,

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she discovers that Adam, now the

new superintendent, has slashed

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her son's beloved arts program.

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Instead of getting her groove

back, Janae gets her protest on.

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Adam is juggling a meddling father

school politics, and unbeknownst

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to him, Janae's Fury when they both

realize they've been dating the enemy.

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Janae gives Adam two choices,

restore the program or lose her.

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Adam proposes a third option one

weekend at his cabin to talk it all out.

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The funding, the old feelings, everything.

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Armed with sass, sarcasm, and a

suitcase full of emotional baggage.

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Janae and Adam discover that

sometimes love shows up in the most

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infuriating and unexpectedly sexy ways.

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This is exactly the kind

of grown folks romance.

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I need the bridge back

to you by Risk m Nielsen.

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Ex is inheriting a restaurant

together, say less.

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Olivia owes everything to Celia's Place.

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It's where she learned to be a great chef.

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It's also where she first fell

in love with Carmelo, whose

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mother owned the restaurant.

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But at 19, Olivia had a wanderlust she

couldn't deny, and Carmelo couldn't

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leave Celia's place behind any more

than he could force Olivia to stay.

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10 years later, Olivia is a

successful personal chef who's never

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stayed in one place for too long.

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When both she and Carmelo inherit shares

of Celia's place, he plans to buy her

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out quickly and painlessly, except Olivia

shows up ready to help run the restaurant.

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She finally has a chance to stay

in one place, build a home, and

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explore whether that home can

be with the one who got away.

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Carmelo has other plans.

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He's trying to drive Olivia

away, so she'll sign over her

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shares, but sparks begin to fly.

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Can they avoid the mistakes of the past?

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This emotional sparkling romance

about second chances in finding home

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has me completely hooked already.

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Score by Kennedy Ryan.

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Listen, Kennedy, Ryan could write

a grocery list and I pre-order

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it, but this the second book

in her Hollywood Renaissance

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series featuring Monk and Verity.

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I've been waiting for this.

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You never forget your first love.

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Verity Hill knows this intimately.

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She didn't just miss right monk, Bellamy

when they parted ways in college.

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She's been haunted by

his touch ever since.

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Every kiss, every lover, it's all

been a shadow of what they had.

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Monk doesn't believe

Time heals all wounds.

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He wasn't simply betrayed

when he and Verity split.

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He was devastated with parts of

him left behind in the ruins.

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More than a decade after their

disastrous breakup, they must work

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together on an epic Harlem Renaissance.

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Biopic with Monk creating the

score and verity pinning the.

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There's Oscar Buzz before

shooting even begins.

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This once in a lifetime project

could catapult them both to new

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heights, but can they put the past

behind them for the sake of the film?

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For the sake of something more.

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Kennedy Ryan writes,

love that, heals love.

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That's complicated and messy and real.

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I cannot wait for this one Big

Girl Blitz by Danielle Allen.

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This is the third and final book in

Danielle's Curve series, and I'm not

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ready to say goodbye to this world,

but I'm so ready for Jasmine's story.

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Jasmine Payne fled her hometown the minute

she graduated high school, leaving behind

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the fat Phobes who made her life hell.

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Her Haven was always her Aunt Addison,

and when her health takes a drastic turn,

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she insists Jazz should spice up her life.

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Emphasis on spice, but dating is

the last thing on Jazz's mind.

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Until Lamar Anderson sits next to her

at the local sports bar, he's sexy, fun,

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and refreshingly drama free With him,

she can pretend everything is all right,

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but as real life in truths, jazz has to

decide if she can leave the past where

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it belongs for a love she deserves.

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Danielle Allen writes Plus size

black women who are unapologetically

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confident, desired and centered.

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Her books remind us that we

deserve love, that sees us

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fully and chooses us completely.

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Struck Speechless by Tati Richardson,

book two in the Boss Chicks Village

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series, and I am here for it.

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Jackie Miles is a petite, powerhouse

sports agent who's built her

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empire on killer instincts,

designer stilettos, and tough skin.

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Aside from her French bulldog,

Peewee, and her boss Chick Village,

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she's perfectly content flying solo.

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Then Antonio Steele, the towering

former football star turned rival.

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Agent walks back into her life

and all hell breaks loose.

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Just when Jackie thinks she can handle

their explosive chemistry and complicated

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past, she mysteriously loses her voice.

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A cryptic stranger's message implies

she must quiet her tongue and listen

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with her heart to lift the spell.

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With a career defining client trip

to Mexico looming and only the

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devastatingly handsome Antonio as

backup, Jackie must learn to let go if

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only she could trust him to catch her.

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This magical realism meets romance

setup has me absolutely intrigued the

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missed connection by Tia Williams.

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Tia Williams is one of my all

time favorite authors, and

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this premise is everything.

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Sasha Cruz is a booked and busy casting

agent who's always casting at happy

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Hour, the post office, everywhere.

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She's all about finding the perfect

person for the perfect role.

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What she doesn't do?

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Relationships.

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Too much energy, not enough time.

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But when she's seated next to a

mysterious, brooding, handsome Italian

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man on a flight to Paris, sparks fly.

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They miss the chance to exchange

contact information, and now Sasha

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is convinced she's lost her soulmate.

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She enlists help to find c diff,

but accidentally emails the entire

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global company colleagues around the

world begin looking for him too with

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some finding love along the way.

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Meanwhile, Sasha hires a smoldering

detective who complicates

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matters in unforeseen ways.

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This intensely romantic deliciously

sexy tale about searching for

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connection in unexpected places

sounds absolutely perfect.

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Don't tell me how it ends.

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By Adrianne Thurman.

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This sparkling debut asks, can we

protect ourselves while falling in love?

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Kaya Harper may not have a plan for

her life, but she knows what she

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won't be doing, falling for somebody's

dusty son and promising forever.

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She'd rather spend the summer after

college having disappointing one night

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stands and watching crime show reruns.

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At least she knows how those stories end.

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But when her very pregnant and

newly single sister calls for help,

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Kaia stumbles back home and into

her sister's matchmaking business.

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If becoming the inaugural client

can distract her from what

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am I even doing with my life?

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She'll suffer through a few bad dates.

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When Roe Jackson finds Kaia stalled

on the side of the road, his steady

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disposition is exactly what she needs.

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A friend who can handle

her just as she is.

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But as RO talks kayah through a summer

of failed matches, she finds herself

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drawn to more than just his friendship.

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Kayah will have to decide what's more

important, needing to know the end of

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every story or jumping into the unknown.

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This one sounds hilarious and heartfelt.

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And rounding out my most anticipated list,

the Art of Loving You by Natasha Bishop.

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Hearts on the Fly by Tony Shiloh.

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A Love Worth Forever by Brianne Donna.

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Skate Till You Make It by Ru Farro Faith

Maura Break up for two by EM Wilson, the

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Summer Girlfriend by Christina Forrest.

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Like a summer love song by Naima

Simone Rich and Rotten by Jaque Jay.

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So that's my Wellness Journey and my

omance reading intentions for:

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The thread, connecting them,

joy, intentionality, the refusal

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to shrink myself or my dreams.

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I'm choosing books that make me feel good.

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I'm choosing practices

that support my healing.

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I'm choosing to trust my instincts

even when my mind is still

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catching up and I'm choosing to

believe that rest is resistance.

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Joy is revolutionary, and

love for ourselves and for

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each other is always worth it.

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I'd love to hear what you're

most excited to read in:

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What's on your TBR?

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What wellness practices are you exploring?

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Come find me on Threads or Instagram at

becoming Octavia and let's talk about it.

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someone who needs to hear this message.

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Until next time, keep reading, keep

resting, and keep choosing joy.

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